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KISS LIKE NO ONE IS WATCHING
“I like you.” I stood there, staring at his face, shocked so much that I could not speak. There was something earnest about the expression on his face, something rather
What Wilfred Wills
We’ve since moved to a bigger house, but back then, when my family lived in a three-bedroom apartment, I shared a room with my elder brother. He is seven years
IN THE BUSINESS OF HEARTS
Earlier this year, I was casually dating someone – let’s call him X. It ended up not going anywhere, primarily because of the baggage he appeared to be carrying from
Silent Christmas
How do I start this without leaving any point untouched? Because you know holiday sadness randomly hits you and you cannot deal with it. You could just be out and
DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK (Entry 3)
Time Wasters, Fuck Off! One of the really annoying things about the Grindr scene over here in the UK is how often you encounter those who waste your time in
HERE IS WHERE MY STORY BEGINS (Episode 2)
Previously on Here Is Where My Story Begins… * He booked an uber to take us to the 5-star hotel he was staying at in Ikeja, to get ready for
AN ACE UP YOUR SLEEVE
Hello KD, it’s Dandie, your favorite asexual again. Last year, I penned my story (Am I Queering Wrong?) where I talked about my struggle with relationships as an asexual in
The Proposal: Two Queer Men Are Looking For Marriage Prospects
Hello, my name is Jojo, and I am a gainfully-employed gay man in my late 30s. I am from the Southern part of Nigeria, resident in Lagos, and I am
Who Are The Church’s Victims?
Pastor Abel Damina’s sermon where he calls out the church for being responsible for Sammie Okposo’s death is making the rounds on social media. I watched the video, and I
HERE IS WHERE MY STORY BEGINS
I was on Grindr looking for a quick hookup. After spending some time without much success, I decided to log out but not before a message came in. I quickly
