Our Stories
An Ethnography of KD Stories
Sometime in January, I wrote to this community, asking for volunteer interviewees for the research work I was doing and was immensely touched by the feedback I got; the commitment
THE CHOSEN ONE
I was really tired from the lectures that day, classes which had started from 7am and was ending by 6pm. We initially didn’t have classes starting that early, but the
THE UNEXPECTED REBOUND (Part 2)
Previously on THE UNEXPECTED REBOUND… * I kissed him. For a few seconds, he was motionless for few seconds, and then his tongue started searching the inside of my mouth
THE UNEXPECTED REBOUND
A few years ago, my boyfriend of about three years at the time called off the relationship. Even though I taught myself before I met him not to allow certain
WHEN NEXT YOU SAY THAT ALL GAY MEN KNOW IS SEX
I have a theory. I am going to paint a picture. I will be creating the average life of a gay man in Nigeria. Let’s call him Tayo. So, we
WHAT IS IN A NAME? (A Personal Inquiry Into The Process Of Vilifying Words)
“What is in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” (Excerpted from Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare) A couple
I LOVE HER. I LOVE HIM
I met her first. I met her during a presentation/seminar a client company made in the company where I work: my company is a construction/geotechnical firm that takes up many
Can One Seek Too Much Consent?
The recent furor surrounding the issue of Nigeria’s rape culture has sparked conversations on the social media, and chief among them is the topic of consent. As I’ve been observing
WHAT ABOUT THE BOYFRIEND?
I was minding my business like the good Christian that I am, when my friend called me up to tell me that gist was flowing on Twitter about a certain
Menaskom
I met him on Badoo in December 2018. (Let’s call him Tim). We started chatting after he requested access to my private album and I granted it to him. The
