Our Stories
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WHAT ABOUT THE BOYFRIEND?
I was minding my business like the good Christian that I am, when my friend called me up to tell…
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Menaskom
I met him on Badoo in December 2018. (Let’s call him Tim). We started chatting after he requested access to…
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Sexual Harassment Is Just As Detrimental As Rape
#BlackLivesMatter and #SayNoToRape have been trending all week, as they should, given the horrific stories and deaths that have plagued…
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THE AFTERMATH
You’ve read the stories. We Are Here: The Attack. We Are Here: The Hunt. We Are Here: The Retribution. And…
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THE SECURITY POST
In the beginning, he was just another member of the security at the gate of my street, one of the…
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STILL TOP OR NOW BOTTOM?
Several weeks ago, I was invited to birthday party by a friend (we’d been chatting on Grindr and eventually WhatsApp).…
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A HOLD ON ME
My phone beeped on the first of January 2020, and I checked to see what text was, believing it was…
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JUST LIKE OLIVER TWIST (A Chain Of Unhappiness)
EDITOR’S NOTE: The beginning part of this story, JUST LIKE OLIVER TWIST, was told back in January. And since then,…
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The L Word
I don’t know if I’m alone on this, but the ease with which guys fall for the person they’re romantically…
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CROSSING LINES
Something recently happened to me that I will like to share. The story begins a year ago, when I got…
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