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SHOW ME THE HOLE
I’d been chatting with this guy that I met via 2go. We’d exchanged nudes; I’m comfortable with my body, so I have no qualms sending nudes. He sent his nudes;
UNEXPECTED PLEASURES
I was at Muson Centre for a concert. A friend of mine, a cellist, was part of a performance that was going to play on that day. By the time
A Mother’s Choice To Love
In a Facebook update, Bunmi Tella talks about the woman she was as a born-again Christian and the woman she later chose to be. Check on it. * When I
ONE GOOD TURN
So, there’s this guy, let’s call him Philip. I met him at the cinema in Jabi Lake Mall. We happened to be seeing the same movie and sat beside each
Of Cakes And Cases
Recall the case of the Colorado baker who refused to make a wedding cake for a gay couple but ultimately narrowly won the case at the US Supreme Court in
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Final Entry)
LESSON 20 From the chapter, ‘I Convinced Myself I Wasn’t Lesbian’, HA has this to say to us: “Until we become visible, queer people [in Nigeria] will continue to think
The Lie Of “I Love You”
You know what I don’t understand? Guys who are such pathological liars, they lie even when they don’t have to. How is it that you know someone, you both hook
GRINDR, GAY MEN AND THAT “NA THEM DEY RUSH US” MENTALITY
Some days ago, because I was feeling an itch for sex, I got on my phone and downloaded Grindr. I filled out a profile and waited for someone to slide
A NIGHTMARE IN ENUGU CITY
So I met this guy on Grindr. Let’s call him Daniel. Daniel and I had been chatting for awhile. He was in Enugu and I was in Nnewi. During the
Lessons Learned From ‘She Called Me Woman’ (Entry 19)
LESSON 19 From the chapter, ‘Why Do I Have To Ask You To Consider Me Human’, DK admonishes: “Why do I have to ask you to consider me human? Can’t
