Dear KD: I Have An Issue of Blood
Hello everyone, I have a health challenge. I have been bleeding for a little over a month now after having sex.
It started happening right after the sex – which wasn’t anything particularly strenuous or adventurous – occurring whenever I would go to the toilet to do the number 2. I was afflicted by this for two weeks, then it stopped, and then started again about two weeks later.
This isn’t my first time engaging in anal sex, but this is the first it’s taking this long to for me to stop bleeding. I have tried a few remedies such as sitting in salt water and using Shea butter (this actually resulted in a cessation of the blood affliction for a few days).
I would please like to know if there are any medications or treatments I can take to make this stop and to also ensure it doesn’t happen again.
Submitted by Jayho
Pls see a Dr.
There is no need speculating- if u can’t locate LGBT health clinics pls ask pinky. If u don’t have transportation, please speak up too, many folks here may help.
Well I had same issue ones…I was just 17 then and I knew nothing..so all I did was dabbing hot water directly to my hole and applying penecilin afterwards..well I did that for 4 months constantly!! And it stopped eventually…try go to queer clinic for possible solution!!
Please go and see a doctor. Any doctor. They don’t really need to know you engage in anal sex to fix the problem for you BUT you should know that anal sex is most definitely contributing to the bleeding so you MIGHT have to retire and find other ways of enjoying sex for now or sadly forever.
Had similar issue before. Could be anal fissure/haemorrhoid.
First off, you have to hang your bottom boots, nothing should go in up there for now, not even a pin. In fact, you may start considering not bottoming again.
Secondly, when using the bathroom, pls AVOID STRAINING as much as possible, that causes more pressure around your anal tissue/linings. DON’T SIT/SQUAT there longer than necessary, hurry up and leave there.
DON’T SIT down for too long at a time, get up once in a while and walk around.
DON’T walk/trek long distances, that will irritate your anal wall and cause more pain and then more bleeding.
DON’T eat anything spicy or could make you purge, that’s inviting the enemy into your life.
Include fiber and roughages in your diet, to bulk up your waste.
AVOID acidic fruits as much as possible: pineapples and too much oranges are a no no.
Try sitting on warm water if you can. Didn’t feel comfortable to me then, so I stopped.
And good old water drink lots of it.
These were what I did then. If after all these, you’re still having the pains/bleeding, then seek expert medical attention.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/bleeding-after-anal-sex#treatment…
This should help with a better knowledge of how to go about it…
use the link above
Add fibre to your diet and buy Anusol anal suppository.
Looks Like Haemorrhoids. Stop engaging in anal sex for the time being. Get a high fiber diet to soften your stools. It usually heals in time.
https://fascrs.org/patients/diseases-and-conditions/a-z/hemorrhoids#:~:text=With%20nonsurgical%20treatment%2C%20pain%20and,stools%20soft%2C%20formed%20and%20bulky.
Could be haemorrhoids or a fissure…best to see a doctor asap. They would most likely prescribe gels and/or suppositories to help it heal.
Thank you all. Really appreciate your comments.