Why does bottoming have to be so stressful and hard? Like, it’s so easy for a Top to whip out his dick and insert and, boom, they’re enjoying what they do.
It’s so crazy how we don’t even talk about it 😪. I am in my early twenties and for a long while, since I became sexually active, I have struggled with the sexual role I feel more drawn to: bottoming. But in recent times, I have become more invested in tackling that struggle. I started with toys to open myself up more, to enjoy, before going for an actual dick.
So there I was, spending almost thirty minutes on douching.
Urgh! Douching is so stressful and time-wasting. Is there no way we can just have good sex without the bottom having to douche? (If there’s a way to shag without first douching, someone please tell me.)
After douching, I loaded the batteries into my toy and I liberally applied the lube. I slid the toy in and then switched it on, and it began doing its work. Lol. It is rocket shaped, and I tried to ride it, and it was soon hitting me in my second hole – you know, the internal sphincter. (Phew chile!)
It felt amazing. And painful too. But that passed. I was watching the latest video that Rhyheim Shabazz posted while I was working on my ass, and it was a fast fuck. I was going fast too. And it was crazy, so crazy that I felt like I was going to shit on myself.
I stopped to check, and there was nothing. No paint. That urge to shit was fleeting. I slid the toy back in and carried on with my self-pleasuring. My second hole was getting hit on again, and it felt really good. A little out of control. (I wish I can master the control of my second hole)
As I was riding the toy, my dick was hard as fuck, and it was slapping up against my stomach and the bed. I applied some lube on it and began to jerk off. Rhyheim was making his Bottom moan, and I was working my dick and riding my toy. It was a heady sensation. And I came so fucking fast. I cum quick anyway, so that wasn’t anything new. But this time, it was different, felt sensational.
As I cleaned up, I wondered: Do bottoms douche after sex or they just have a bath? Please, don’t drag me: this bottoming ish doesn’t come with a manual.
I have two toys by the way. I can’t use the bigger one yet because I am yet to be good with the smaller one, the one that is rocket shaped. The bigger one is an actual 8-inch dildo. We are keeping it on hold for now.
So, I want to upgrade and be a better Bottom, control my second hole and receive the dick well (and not say “Ah, please remove, it’s paining me” or “I think I’m going to shit on you”, the way I usually do.) And nobody should tell me bottoming isn’t for me, cos I love that shit.
But the stress of it… Argh! 😪😪
So yes, I need an education on bottoming please. Almighty power bottoms, supreme size queens, the undefeatable versatiles of different shades (maybe even the occasional Top with something instructive to say), I would like to know what a brother can do or not do to be a better bottom.
God bless you as you impart your knowledge.
Written by Amateur Bottom