Because of this very same reason. I’d blame myself if things go south between them, it’d be super-awkward relating with them afters…oh, I’d be relegated to third wheel position. I can’t cope with the added pressure abeg.
You know the real kicker? When they break up and start demanding your loyalty. As in, where once you had two friends, they start demanding you pick one and dump the other. Basically you’d be expected to share the breakup with them too. lol
I will talk to the one cheating, will advice him to end the relationship immediately or stop cheating. If he takes the advice , there will be no further action. If he doesn’t , then i will start dropping suggestions to the partner. I won’t tell him plainly , but i will help him find out that his partner is cheating .
If I’m not the cherub that brought them together, why do I have to have a hand in impending disaster? I’ll sit on the side lines, watch the nuclear fallout and remain friends with either of them, as long as they aren’t radioactive to my relationship with the other one.
Hmm. This is a tough one. I like couples to handle their issues on their own (this is my heart talking) but I know me. I hate deceit. My friend deceiving another friend of mine.
I’ll have to let him know o. I can’t have him find out later, come to me for succor when I’ve known all along and could probably have spared him the trauma (this is my head talking).
I like to think I’ll warn the one cheating first. Only one chance I’ll give before I spill. If the friendship crashes, I’ll be glad to have cut myself off a dwib.
Especially if your friend’s partner was your friend too…
I will have sex with both of them.
Na to find way detach myself small biko. Can’t be around when shit hits the ceiling.
Bwahahahahaha
How so?
???????? So mean and yet so true. Who doesn’t like a good drama.
So that you can hook up with one abi?
Because of this very same reason. I’d blame myself if things go south between them, it’d be super-awkward relating with them afters…oh, I’d be relegated to third wheel position. I can’t cope with the added pressure abeg.
You know the real kicker? When they break up and start demanding your loyalty. As in, where once you had two friends, they start demanding you pick one and dump the other. Basically you’d be expected to share the breakup with them too. lol
Haba!!! I’m wicked not a satan na.
Gbam!
Its like they’ve done it to u abi? U too get am
Oh so brilliant of you, Canis! Brilliant of you ???
I can guess who did this to you.
My dear, i couldn’t belivit when I was put in that position. Like Whaddaell?!
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Basically you’d be expected to share the breakup with them too. lol
You couldn’t have put it any better
If the partner isn’t my friend but merely someone I know through my friend when they started dating, YES, absolutely I’ll tell.
But if the partner is also my friend, I’d tell the partner that I know what he’s doing and I’d give him the chance to fess up with my friend.
If my friend is really my friend of course I’d tell! but gently and after I must have talked to the partner.
Why tell when you’ve got front row seats to impending doom?
No, gay relationships have expiry dates ?
I will talk to the one cheating, will advice him to end the relationship immediately or stop cheating. If he takes the advice , there will be no further action. If he doesn’t , then i will start dropping suggestions to the partner. I won’t tell him plainly , but i will help him find out that his partner is cheating .
*shrugs The minute my friends start dating, I actually subconsciously stop being ‘pals’ with them
I would try my best to make things better.
If I’m not the cherub that brought them together, why do I have to have a hand in impending disaster? I’ll sit on the side lines, watch the nuclear fallout and remain friends with either of them, as long as they aren’t radioactive to my relationship with the other one.
Yes, I would!
Because I’d expect him to do the same for me. To open my eyes to truths that I’m probably blinded to by love.
Most of all, to protect my friend.
I wish someone had done it for me early enough. I probably won’t be where I am today
Hmm. This is a tough one. I like couples to handle their issues on their own (this is my heart talking) but I know me. I hate deceit. My friend deceiving another friend of mine.
I’ll have to let him know o. I can’t have him find out later, come to me for succor when I’ve known all along and could probably have spared him the trauma (this is my head talking).
I like to think I’ll warn the one cheating first. Only one chance I’ll give before I spill. If the friendship crashes, I’ll be glad to have cut myself off a dwib.