Tag "Gay Hookup"
Are There Really Any Strict Tops?
I’ve noticed the recent conversation surrounding sex roles, and considering my experiences in the past, I just have to ask: Is there any such thing as a Strict Top, or
Can One Seek Too Much Consent?
The recent furor surrounding the issue of Nigeria’s rape culture has sparked conversations on the social media, and chief among them is the topic of consent. As I’ve been observing
A HOE ABROAD (Episode 2)
Most of the guys in Lagos who I’ve had sex with know I don’t take defeat in bed. Sex is an art that should be enjoyed by both partners. Well,
What If The Last Sex You Had Is The Last You’ll Ever Have?
So I was browsing through my Facebook timeline when I came across the update of a friend. It was one of those coronavirus teaser posts, a question which went thus:
EVIL, THY NAME IS MAN
When NYSC came around, I was posted to Imo State. Before then, I’d often heard about how the East ties with Lagos as the gay capital of Nigeria, that it
LIVE TO DIE ANOTHER DAY
The night before, during a routine profile perusal on Grindr, I was the one who messaged him first. I don’t usually do this; I’m usually the one who responds to
Grindr Is A Place Where People Come To Get Sex
Let’s stop kidding ourselves, all of us who would like to think that Grindr ought to be more: it’s not. It’s a medium for hookups and sex – and that’s
From Karma, With Love
Treat others just the way you would love to be treated. This has been one of my greatest philosophies in life. This philosophy has made me learn to be tolerant
This guy booked a flight to meet a hookup from Grindr guy before even knowing his name
It took Tim Wright less than two hours to book a flight from London, England, to Helsinki, Finland, all to visit a guy he had only just met on Grindr.
“HELLO.” AND THE FRUITS OF SHOOTING YOUR SHOT
Putting yourself out there online for one to get interested in you, for magic to happen, for a hookup to be actualized is – I’ve come to realize – hard
