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“Be Sure Of The Sexuality Of Your Partner Before You Get Married.” BBNaija’s Leo Dasilva advices
The former contestant of the juggernaut show, Big Brother Naija, shared his opinion on marriage and sexuality on his social media account.
“Before you get married, be very sure of the sexuality of your partner,” he tweeted.
And apparently, in response to this tweet, his DM was flooded with messages of people narrating their experiences – I’m guessing, with down-low partners?
Anyway, he finishes by saying that sex or not, one should make it a priority to be sure he or she is marrying what they asked for.
When this thread was shared on Instablog9ja, a naïve, sweet summer child of a Nigerian had this to say about her own experience.
LOL. Is anyone going to tell her or should we let her be blissful in her ignorance?

???? Wait fest o, so this girl’s ex actually told her that he got gay overnight and she bought it this hook, line and sinker? Wow! ??What a naive sweetheart. This kind of ignorance is cute here, but think how it is a microcosm of how uninformed Nigerians generally are about gay people, and how this ignorance fuels their prejudice. We really have an uphill task ahead of us in educating Nigerians about our community.
85 percent ???
Looool
Nope.
The power bottom is from the 2017 set , his name starts with the letter B .?
Tobi is versatile/bisexual …….
Apparently he’s been shagging M since the show ended and he’s always the top .
But when he shagged the married Eb , he bottomed.
Don’t ask me how I know .???
Looool
The community is pretty small .
Like literally everyone knows everyone .
Especially when you roll with all these wannabe instagram celebrities .
You get to hear gists .
Like the guy Uti is currently shagging AZ used to roll with Tobi too .
It’s basically a recycle bin ?
Ebuka’s gist is stale nah some of you really need to hang out a bit more mbok and get informations bout what goes on in the community.
So, this Ebuka thing is actually real????
LOL. You sound shocked. When you know, you know.
Where can i get this whole delicious pot of Tea ?? Higwe??
Now I’m stuck…Wow
Uti is gay??? But he says he isn’t na.
I want the whole pot of tea oh. You guys should gist me abeg.
Isn’t it obvious? No man dresses that way for a lady.
Wait, Tobi has been shagging Miracle?? Wow!
Oya ohhhh, still waiting fir the hot gist/tea pot mbok.
Uti is gay nah ??
He used to be in a live in relationship with Alex and apparently he invested his heart but Alex dumped him in the worst possible way , so he’s been a fuck boy ever since .
His latest target is Cornelius …he was the one that linked him to the Gulder deal … Cornelius got paid over 300k for it .
I don’t know if he’s succeeded sha but I know Cornelius ain’t easy.
His regular fuck buddy is a guy called A Z ….search for a story on KD called ” the competition”
There is a hidden Easter apple on the thumbnail. ???
Yes ?
Tobi is in love with Miracle but the feeling is unrequited.
Miracle is a smart , ambitious and focused dude …he has no time for gragra .
I like that dude sha… he’s on his own lane doing his own thing .
Can I get your email or contact number. I want to hear the full gist. PinkPanther epp me.
Why do I feel like me and Higwe are already friends. You basically just typed my thoughts.
I’ve always known that Leo is gay. Before BBNaija and after BBNaija. That’s one of the reasons why Khloe doesn’t really fuck with him anymore though she has queer friends.
The Cee-Lo relationship was big SHAM.
I can also confirm that A Z dude Uti is fucking. They go everywhere together. He’s basically Uti’s handbag. Cornelius might have done one of two things with him, not so sure because he unusually completes their 3-some outings.
The worst possible way! Sounds like a tea I’m desperate to know
this one na very HOT tea ohh.. maybe I can try
bdsm + prostitution = miracle
strictly top = Leo & tobi
versatile = rico swavey
strictly btm = k brulé & miracle
abuser = ???
lmao…
Tobi looks like all them muscles be hiding a squealer. My money is on him being a Power Bottom
Ahn ahn. See hot tea o. Just dishing the juicy salacious details. Abeg inform us in clearer terms
I see why Tobi dislikes Nina
Mbok I need your email address. See tea everywhere. I always knew they weren’t straight,i just didn’t think of Rico
Bassey is bottom?????
The amount of dumbness in that Instagram comment is enough to weaken even the greatest and most patient teacher.
Woddifok is that kind of ignorance supposed to be called na?
Just when you’re begining to think you’ve seen it all…
Leo Dasilva ?????
Leo , Tobi , Miracle , K .Brule , Rico Swavey …two out of these names are bisexuals and the remaining three are as queer as rainbows .??
One is into BDSM and prostitution .
Two are strictly bottoms .
One is strictly a top and has been known to be physically abusive to his erstwhile lovers .
One is very versatile and easy to get into bed if you use the right approach .?
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Take this info to a shrine …you are getting it from a NEAR horse’s mouth .?
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I wonder what could trigger Leo to start shaking this Table ??…he was doing so well with his arranged Ceeleo ship .
Maybe he’s trying to deflect attention sha …all join.
Hot gist o
Oya ohhhh, I really need the full gist mbok, I mean the full hot tea pot bcuz am really hungry to hear jare.
You can’t always be sure of your partners sexuality because sometimes even they arent sure of it. Sexuality is a spectrum, there really are no boxes. Besides sexuality is not a guarantee for love or successful marriage. He can tick straight on your profile forms and still beat you to stupor at the slightest provocation. And both of u can also be straight but yet incompatible for marriage.
The other girl blabbing about her bf na just plain mumu. Lol
You see I wanted to comment about Leo’s views but you see that overnight comment caught my attention. Hanty how is that possible? your bobo has been gay on a low key so you’re telling us that that was his first time of watching gay porn? some people lack common sense. As for Leo well said but what we find is people not living their true because of what the society will say. Every weekend na so so wedding.
And by the comments I’m seeing on Twitter most Nigerians don’t know the meaning of sexuality oooo. I don laff for here tire.