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God’s Children Are Truly Little Broken Things
Some months ago, I met this guy on Tinder. I’d just joined the app following a dare from a friend, and after a few matches, two days later, here was
The Proposal: PLEASE BEWARE OF MARRIAGE SCAMMERS!!! | Four Gay Men And A Woman Are Looking For Partners
It has recently come to my attention that there’s a queer woman whose post I have put up here before, who has been exploiting the interests of the gay men
THE UNWANTED
My cousin texted me on WhatsApp. The text had pictures of a good-looking man. My cousin wanted to know if I knew him. He was home for the Christmas holiday
Kito Alert: Lagos, Owerri and Aba Continue To Breed Kito Scum
As insecurity continues to be one of Nigeria’s biggest problem, as Nigerians continue to fall victim to highway robberies, kidnapping and gun violence, so too does the average queer Nigerian
BLOODLINES
We’d been seeing each other for about a year; Sagir and I met in October 2021, and the relationship was particularly based on sex. No commitment other than whenever any
Kito Scum and Their NEW Instagram Catfishing Strategy
It would seem as though kito scum have devised a new way of catfishing their targets. The usual method is to open an Instagram account filled with the stolen pictures
The Trauma Of Being Dike
I had a dream this morning. A very weird dream that woke me up. I am back in Enugu, at the home of some of my family’s friends — the
Kito Alert: Oyigbo Has Become To Port Harcourt What Ojo Is To Lagos
We have held so many online conversations – in Clubhouse and Twitter Spaces – where we talked about kito, the way they work and how we can stay safe in
The Proposal: A Queer Women And Queer Man Are Looking For Serious Commitments
I am Stella (not my real name of course), and I am in my mid-30s, ready to settle down with a gay/bisexual guy and also build a family together. I
DIARY OF A GAY NIGERIAN IN THE UK (Entry 4)
If He is Black, Then He Must be Top I have read and heard from a lot of gay guys over here of how there is a stereotypical belief that
