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THIS IS A GAY POST

“You meet someone at a party. You finally talk to that crush or you go online and you start a conversation with this random stranger. The conversation is intriguing. It

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THE NIGHT OF CONFESSIONS

The first time I got head, I was tipsy. It was my very first head and let me just tell you – a head-mistress was the one who gave it

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Homosexuality Is Not Un-African But Homophobia Is

Previously published on africanexponent.com Homosexuality is considered an anathema to African societies. In Tanzania’s semi-autonomous Zanzibar, 12 women and 8 men were arrested over homosexuality. They were in a hotel

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The Question About The End Of One’s Self-Consciousness Over Being Gay

David Hudson questions his internalized homophobia and wonders if it will ever go away in this piece originally published on gaystarnews.com * At what age does one’s internalized homophobia fade

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Growing Old With HIV And How To Cope With Aging

Paul Thorn, author of HIV Happy, talks about how to deal with those grey hairs you never thought you would have. * Time is the great equalizer. We are all

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When November Comes

I still can’t believe we met on Grindr because I’d always believed that Grindr is filled with really annoying people with little or no brains. I am not saying there

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“He wanted me to die in jail.” The Guys Arrested For Being Gay Speak Out

Originally published on abc.net.au For 23-year-old Femi*, a night out celebrating a birthday with friends ended with a month and two days in jail because of his sexuality. In late

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FUCK ME!

He was not the hottest, or the tallest, or the most cerebral. He was just a man who knew how to use his words. Eventually, however, those were all he

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Disappearing Acts

“Promise me that you’ll give it up . . . for my sake.” I never wanted to go to a boarding school for my senior high, but my parents insisted

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Mother Knows Best?

We were all in the parlor, my mother, my siblings and I. The evening was a cool one and NEPA people had been trying for us for quite awhile, so