The Proposal: I Am A Bisexual Man Looking For A Woman Interested In Marriage

The Proposal: I Am A Bisexual Man Looking For A Woman Interested In Marriage


My name is John, a Nigerian who hails from the East.

I am average height (184 inch), muscular or chubby (depending on how you look at me), dark haired and brown eyed. My genotype is, well, unknown, and I am HIV negative.

I am a bisexual, although I have only been with a girl once. I am 32 years old, and a welfare/support worker. I currently live and work in the United Kingdom, but I’m planning on relocating to Canada next year.

As a Bisexual man, I have a desire to wed a woman and have children. And as such, I am searching for any lady between the ages of 18 to 25, who wishes to get into a contract of marriage. If she were to be from the East (preferably Anambra State), it would be an added bonus.

I will treat her with respect, care and love. And I wouldn’t mind if she had a lesbian partner, even though I would appreciate some discreteness from her as I would also like to think she’d appreciate from me.

She should also want to have children, and we could make a family work, where our kids could be born in UK, Nigeria or Canada, depending on location and whatever agreement we can come to.

Whoever is interested in this arrangement should kindly reach out to be at Thank you.

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  1. Demi
    December 19, 09:31 Reply

    This is our life now, I shudder at the reality that I’m getting into the ‘marriage-age’ as I’m already in an ‘absolute independent status’. Am I going to have a post like this in d nearest future? Chaaaaii ‘sobs'( in patience Jonathan voice).
    Anyway, lesbians in d house, help Mr John out bikonu…

    • Higwe
      December 19, 13:00 Reply

      Been thinking about this a lot lately .

      One of the guys I used to mess with back in the day came to marry my elder sister recently ( he didn’t know we were related) …let’s just say it was a pretty ugly situation .

      Because the guy ticked all the boxes of a ” quintessential son in law ” except for the secret we both knew .

      Couldn’t give my parents nor my sister a valid reason why I vehemently opposed the union.

      At some point I even told them the guy is a ritualist ???… That made my sister guffaw because the guy had a well documented source of income.

      Naaa mahn , it was stressful .
      I can literally kill for this sister of mine .
      Grew up hero worshipping her….. the fact I had to watch her walk into the biggest mistake of her near perfect life and there wasn’t much I could do to stop it (without exposing myself), was enough to defenestrate me.

      Thankfully everything resolved itself and they both went their separate ways.

      I don’t think it really hits you that deep till it happens to you .

      Been reexamining my stance on gay men marrying oblivious straight women ever since .

      What I can’t bear to see happen to my own sister , wouldn’t I be the biggest hypocrite by doing it to someone’s sister or daughter .??‍♂️

      I want to have kids …though I don’t think I’ll make a good single dad , but I’ll like to make it work somehow .

      The idea of marriage is cancelled to me .
      All consequences be damned .

      Sometimes humanity and conscience should take precedence over societal norms and family expectations .??‍♂️

      • Pink Panther
        December 19, 15:06 Reply

        All I got from reading this comment is: Why the heck haven’t you sent this story to me? ?

  2. McDuke
    December 19, 13:02 Reply

    This is one of my greatest fear right now. I hope you find what you’re looking for John.

  3. Duc
    December 19, 14:19 Reply

    Wtf is 184 inch?
    There’s a lesbian version of kito diaries. Try dropping this ad over there. They’re quite “sophisticated” so get ready?

    • Pink Panther
      December 19, 15:07 Reply

      What’s the page and how can I get in contact with the operator?

    • thelily
      December 22, 23:25 Reply

      Please what is the lesbian version of KD?

  4. Audrey
    December 19, 18:27 Reply

    John that stayed in Bucknor whilst in Nigeria you finally have decided to settle down…How’s your daughter doing?

    And you forgot to add that you are pretty hung too…Goodluck

  5. Colossus
    December 21, 10:05 Reply

    I’m a man and i want to apply. So so tempting

    • Pink Panther
      December 21, 11:54 Reply

      Lol. What’s tempting? The part about life abroad? ?

  6. Love
    December 31, 02:34 Reply

    Hello John I wrote to you, please kindly check your mail and get back to me.

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