Tag "Gaydar"

Dear KD 20 Comments

Dear KD: Does The Gaydar Really Exist?

I am a closeted gay man. And the only way I have been able to hook up has been online. But I am looking for more organic hookups, starting off

Series (Non-Fiction) 43 Comments

RANTINGS OF A RANDOM (Gay) NIGERIAN (Entry 49)

So I have this friend whom I shall call Emeka. We have been friends for ages; right from our days as bright eyed young kids on the university campus. After

Our Stories 23 Comments

‘Gaydar’ May Not Actually Be a Thing

Originally published on yahoo.com Can you really spot a gay man simply by looking at him? The “every-gay-man-is-flamboyant” cliché is thankfully dying. But the notion of “gaydar” — the supposed

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Photo Of The Day XXXVIII

So has anyone been outed by this contraption yet? Hmm? Has anyone jiggled that up against you and a rainbow light suddenly started shining, effectively exposing you as a gay

Series (Non-Fiction) 40 Comments

SUITS AND TIES (Part 3)

There’s a colleague of mine who had my gaydar buzzing for sometime in the recent past. Let’s call him Steve. I wasn’t into him, plus he works in another, very-separate

Our Stories 38 Comments

The Pinky Theory

The Pinky Theory is one of the laws of the Gay Universe. Just like the Laws of Physics. The Pinky Theory is as Immutable as Gravity, as Forceful as the

Editor's Desk 28 Comments

That Vlog Clip Where Toke Makinwa Talked About The Signs To Know He’s Gay

He’s too stylish . . . No, he’s metrosexual . . . No, he’s gay. This post on Toke Makinwa’s vlog, Toke Moments, is not recent. And most of you