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Queer Twitter reacts to Tweet about Gay Men and Heteronormativity

On April 4, a Twitter netizen who goes by the handle @BoNgAnI45481479 tweeted his exasperation over the type of men he dates. “I want a bottom that knows that he’s

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Tweets of the Day: About Gay Stereotypes

Bottoms speak good English. Tops don’t care about their personal hygiene. Bottoms don’t have muscles. Tops don’t cross their legs when they sit. Bottoms are bitchy. Tops don’t have time

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OUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS SEX IS STOPPING US FROM GETTING OUR ORGASMS

Adele’s Set Fire To The Rain is playing when it hits me: that to be queer is to live in silence, to carry trauma and shame all your life. That

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Twitter user expresses a wish that makes us wonder: How Hard Can It Be For One To Switch Sex Roles?

On December 31, a Twitter user Andrés (@papistalli) posted a thirst-trap selfie along with the caption: “I wish I was top.” From this caption, it is obvious that Andrés identifies

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Dear KD: How Can I Go From Bottoming To Topping?

Hello, guys, I really need your help. Maybe there are people like me out there who have managed to figure this out and can help me. I have always played

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Twinks and Bottoms, Muscles and Tops

A video from the stables of comedian, Michael Henry, recently surfaced in my inbox, and its content is interesting. Michael is hanging out with a couple of friends, when one

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STILL TOP OR NOW BOTTOM?

Several weeks ago, I was invited to birthday party by a friend (we’d been chatting on Grindr and eventually WhatsApp). And I’d only met him once prior to the time

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THE SHOE ON THE OTHER FOOT

I hadn’t had sex in a long time. Between work and personal commitments, I barely had a social life, let alone time for random hookups. The day I hung out

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A ‘Mostly Top’ Guy learns a tough lesson about cancelling on your Bottom

A guy who identifies as “mostly top” found the shoe on the other foot after he spent hours preparing for bottoming, only to receive nothing but excuses. Andy, a marketing

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Rhyheim Shabazz may have (finally!) bottomed, and Twitter can’t handle it

Rhyheim Shabazz is everyone’s favourite porn newcomer, who shot to prominence over the past year mostly through his own OnlyFans and JustForFans pages, and amassing over 300,000 followers (reportedly the