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What Sexuality Have You? A Dictionary Of Sexual Orientations

Confused by some of the different terms and identities around on the internet? Here’s a dictionary of orientations and preferences from across the spectrum.

Starting with the more widely known. . .

gay: when a male is attracted to another male, or when a female is attracted to another female

lesbian: when a female is sexually attracted to another female, might use the term “gay” interchangeably

straight or heterosexual: when a female or male is attracted to the other binary gender

bisexual: when an individual is attracted to both their own gender and another gender

An example of bisexual is when a female is attracted to both other females and males. This is often confused with. . .

pansexual or omnisexual: when an individual is attracted to all gender expressions, while still maintaining preferences

An example of pansexual is when a male is attracted to other males, females, transsexual individuals, third-gender individuals, androgynous individuals, etc.

Then, there are the lesser known. . .

skoliosexual: when an individual is not attracted to cisgender individuals, but the other gender expressions

gynesexual or gynosexual: when an individual is attracted to females and/or individuals with feminine features

androsexual: when an individual is attracted to males and/or individuals with masculine features

asexual or non-sexual: when an individual rarely experiences sexual attraction to other individuals, but still experiences romantic and/or emotional attraction

Grey A or Gray A: when an individual very rarely experiences sexual attraction or has only a slight sex drive, but may in particular situations or with particular individuals

aromantic or non-romantic: when an individual rarely experiences romantic and/or emotional attraction to other individuals, but still experiences sexual attraction

autosexual: when individuals are sexually attracted to themselves

demisexual: when an individual only experiences sexual attraction to another individual when a powerful romantic and emotional relationship is created

androgynosexual: when an individual is attracted to males, females, and/or androgynous individuals with both masculine and feminine features

polysexual: when an individual is attracted to some, but not all gender expressions

pomosexual: when an individual does not feel their sexual preference can and/or should be identified by pre-existing labels

This is all so confusing. I don’t know about you but I only identify with one sexual orientation here. However, this is not a comprehensive list; when it comes to sexuality, people are constantly coming up with new ways to identify themselves.

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34 Comments

    1. Even some gay men I know are bandying the word around in description of us. It’s sorta like black people calling themselves ‘niggers’ when once before, it was a politically incorrect term.

    2. Akpansexual is when you’re attracted to lean meat and with very low cholesterol and carbs

      ***flees***

  1. I’m surprised “queer” isn’t on this list, since it’s becoming a kind of catchall category in certain areas, through which people identify with the LGBT-alphabet soup community. Queer-identified folks might experience romantic or sexual attraction in a variety of the ways listed above. Obviously, in some areas queer is still primarily a slur, but it’s being reclaimed.

  2. O ga oh. Shit just got mega complicated. I wish I could experience that autosexual thingy. Vanity overload.

  3. b4 seeing Shawn Up until yesterday, I may not av bin aromantically skoliosexual…this is just a headache. I’m gay abeg

  4. pomosexual – When an individual is attracted to pomo and not shaki

    shakisexual – when an individual is attracted to shaki. can sometimes be used in place of pomosexual

    pomshasexual – when an individual is attracted to both pomo and shaki and sometimes isi-ewu.

    Now the list is complete

  5. Definitely gay, with a touch of autosexual, cus my nudies turn me on and sometimes i prefer own hands lol. And for those of you who feign distates for labels and roles while playing one role or the other, well there you have it – pomosexuals or pretentious fucks.

  6. Confusosexual; when you are no longer sure of which sexuality you are because PP has decided to give us orishirishi this morning. Odiegwu!

  7. For those who are interested in seeing a comprehensive list check out this link.

    itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2013/01/a-comprehensive-list-of-lgbtq-term-definitions/

  8. Hahaha haha haha haha lol @jarch you are not just OK haba! I didn’t plan to laugh like this today. Amanam nsak imam mkpa and everyone is wondering what the @#%+ is wrong with me. PP the humor here is awesome. Pomo shaki cow leg sexual, now I have heard everything.

  9. Even the mother of dragons was rendered speechless and I was so looking forward to read her take on this. # team khaleesi

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