Tag "Gay Community"

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The Relatable Nigerianness Of The Argentine Gay Romance Film, ‘The Blonde One’

FOREWORD: This review is going to be full of spoilers.   I happened upon the film, The Blonde One, quite by accident. I was surfing the web when I clicked

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CHANGE STARTS WITH YOU (An Open Letter To The Gays)

Guys are not supposed to cry. Guys should not wear pink. Boys should not play with dolls. Men should just chest it and keep a strong face for everyone.  

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Grindr Is Back … And Most Gay Nigerians Are Over It

So, contrary to what some panicked gay Nigerians began running with after Grindr went offline a few days ago, this was not the making of the Nigerian government. After several

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What Is Going On With Grindr In Nigeria?

It first came as a message to me on Twitter, a KDian wanting to know if we’d noticed that there was a problem with Grindr. It would seem as though

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I AM SORRY

Good day, community. My name is MARO ODHIGBA and I am based in Abuja. I was tagged on Kito Diaries in November 2018 as a kito perpetrator. I have no

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“What We Go Through Is What Makes Us A Family.” Austin Wolf talks about the significance of Pride Month

Porn star, Austin Wolf, took to the social media to wish the gay community a Happy Pride Month. “It’s June Pride Month, and you start thinking about what that means

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Random Questions: Who Would You Rather Call You A F*g?

Following this piece that was written about the vilification of the word “effeminate” – What Is In A Name? – a piece which itself took roots from another previously published

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“I Was Called Gay For Wanting To Be A Model.” Instagram model, Caleb Whitehorn, shares | An Inquiry Into Why Male Models and Fitness Trainers Are Presumed To Be Gay

The model and fitness trainer, Caleb Whitehorn, recently took to Instagram to share with his over 48, 000 followers a bias that he’s endured because of his chosen profession. “I’ve

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WHEN NEXT YOU SAY THAT ALL GAY MEN KNOW IS SEX

I have a theory. I am going to paint a picture. I will be creating the average life of a gay man in Nigeria. Let’s call him Tayo. So, we

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WHAT IS IN A NAME? (A Personal Inquiry Into The Process Of Vilifying Words)

“What is in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” (Excerpted from Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare)   A couple