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THE BOYS IN ALVAN HALL

In 2014, I was admitted to study a four-year course at the University of Nigeria. Like many young teenagers, it was an adventure and experience I had been looking forward

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Pedophilia, Femmephobia and Misogyny: A Problematic Gay Man Gets Charged With These And Then Some

Nigerian Gay Twitter generates a lot of drama that we often observe from a distance. But when a consistently problematic member of the community gets exposed for all the ways

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WHAT NOW?

I got to know Iyke through Vincent. Vincent was my friend and they were dating, Vincent and Iyke. And whenever they had any misunderstanding, I was frequently called on to

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A Story Of Male Entitlement In Screenshots

Men are scum. We have acknowledged that about heterosexual men. And gay men as well. There is something to be said about the entitlement of men, that when a guy

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Gay Twitter Commandeers #ProudBoys Hashtag from Pro-Trump White Supremacist Group, Floods Social Media With Images of Same Sex Love

A social media campaign by gay and LGBTQ people and allies to reclaim the hashtag #ProudBoys from the white supremacist group is working, as Twitter was flooded on Sunday with

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Cardi B’s “WAP” Has A Gay Version And It’s Steamy AF

WAP is one of the biggest singles right now, landing Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion at the top of the charts and whose video has garnered over a 140

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Is There Any Justification For Somebody Being Kito And Victimizing Gay People?

Is the presence of hardship in a person’s life an excuse for him to turn around to victimize his fellow human being as a means of creating a better life

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Submissive Partners And The Toxic Masculinity Among Gay Men and Women

On Twitter recently, someone asked: “What was your worst date experience?” And a Twitter user with the handle @notresqs went on to narrate a date they’d had, which can only

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“I Was Called Gay For Wanting To Be A Model.” Instagram model, Caleb Whitehorn, shares | An Inquiry Into Why Male Models and Fitness Trainers Are Presumed To Be Gay

The model and fitness trainer, Caleb Whitehorn, recently took to Instagram to share with his over 48, 000 followers a bias that he’s endured because of his chosen profession. “I’ve

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WHAT IS IN A NAME? (A Personal Inquiry Into The Process Of Vilifying Words)

“What is in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” (Excerpted from Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare)   A couple