15 responses

  1. Francis
    October 2, 2017

    Demand a serious conversation with both of them and go from there. The one wey serious go f@ll in line and if both aren’t serious, fuck, clean mouth and move on to another potential relationship person

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  2. Gad
    October 2, 2017

    I have a feeling that John and Felix are not even yours. One is a fuck buddy and the other a potential one. If you really want something more serious, continue with your search. your religious reference to the status of overseas residency betrays your reverenced for folks who live abroad so I will add that you extend your search beyond the shores of Africa or better still ,dollar earning oyibos already resident in Nigeria.
    Good luck

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    • Tahlee Ibrahim
      October 2, 2017

      Hey Gad!
      I don’t have a particular preference for men who live abroad. I don’t even have the time to seive the ones in Nigeria and those who aren’t. I just happen to know a few. Whoever, wherever, let’s just be on the same page.

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  3. himbo
    October 2, 2017

    How old are you?
    miss me with this bullshit

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  4. beejay
    October 2, 2017

    I don’t think it’s as complicated; only it sounds like you’re hung up on Felix, but scared he’d disappoint you so you’re holding on to Jon as a backup plan. you’re already ‘involved’ with Felix, stop waiting for him to ask you out. Ask him yourself, gauge his reaction and behaviour after, then go from there. If he’s for real, you’d know, and if he’s not, oh well, at least you tried!

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  5. Foxydevil
    October 2, 2017

    Ahh ! to be young and foolish again, don’t we all miss those moments of hopeless aspirations?
    Sweet Tali, nothing is gonna come out from both relationships (if there is even any to begin with) it is all in your head. Felix is looking for a fuck buddy to make his stay less stressful and Jon is AWOL… Probably because he doesn’t really care much about you to stage a meet or he has most likely been cat fishing you and doesn’t want to expose his real self to you.
    Snap out of that love you think you feel for Felix and enjoy that dick and every other luxury that comes with sleeping with him (he sounds loaded ) he will go back and just like before he most likely wouldn’t maintain contact.
    As for Jon, keep playing it cool with him, if he ever decides to meet, then that’s cool, if he doesn’t ,move on sweetie! The world is filled with billions of men with dangling cocks, why obsess over one?
    **********
    Sweetie, please make sure you always protect yourself ….these abroad guys can carry diseases for Africa, stay safe and don’t over think it, just have a good time, it doesn’t hurt till you start catching unnecessary feelings. You sound quite young, you will find love am sure, I don’t just see it with either Felix or Jon.
    ******

    Mmmmmh 😊 booked a hotel for a year!!!!!!
    Jos here I come 🚶.

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    • Tahlee Ibrahim
      October 2, 2017

      In a very Foxydevil manner!
      I’m all about being the best version of myself right now. Trust me, the lectures about protection I get from my mum is enough to last a lifetime. You might want to think twice about coming to Jos. It ain’t worth the shit! Lol. Thanks so much.

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  6. Ken George
    October 2, 2017

    What u need to do is have sex with both of them and get it out of your system once and for all. And while youre at it, stop throwing up the word “love” anyhow. You are not in love. Maybe just in love with the idea if love, but mostly infatuated. So ditch the deceptive dilemma, thank me later!

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    • Pink Panther
      October 2, 2017

      In love with the idea of love.

      I like that.

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  7. Delle
    October 2, 2017

    This isn’t complex.

    Take Jon out of the equation, please. He isn’t there. Online love, to me, is most times superficial. You can’t say you love someone via social media until you meet with the person. Trust me when I say this.

    Now that Jon has been taken out, as should be, let’s focus on your Felix.

    Now what’s with some of us and waiting to be asked out? Ehn? You are a man. He is too. Why should you be sitting cross-legged waiting to be asked out by him? What if he’s doing the exact same thing? 😂
    Ask him out yourself since you love clarity! Ask him out and find out where you stand or keep waiting for a non-disclosable amount of time.

    You won’t get any answers by sitting and waiting and writing and hoping. Do something. And please, quit being the princess.
    For your sanity. 😒

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    • Pink Panther
      October 2, 2017

      This! 👆👆👆

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    • Tahlee Ibrahim
      October 2, 2017

      Every time there’s a story here I always look forward to your comment. You’re very right and I believe you. Do you like hugs because I want hug you right now! You’re amazing.

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  8. trystham
    October 2, 2017

    Abeg, neither. I dunno why but both of them do not give the vibes that they love u…from the narrative o.

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  9. Tahlee Ibrahim
    October 2, 2017

    I’ve cut all ties with Jon. That’s something I should’ve done a long time ago but then I’m still glad that I’ve done it. Felix is out of town and will be back this weekend, so yeah we’re going to have that conversation Francis suggested. I’m ready for whatever happens after that.
    Thanks for all your contributions.

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  10. Canis VY Majoris
    October 3, 2017

    *rme*

    Bitch please. As if…😞😒
    Just fucking go with the flow…pun intended.

    Haven’t you heard the saying about eggs and baskets.

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