Series (Non-Fiction)
THE HOOK-UP STORY (A Dare Gone Wrong)
So, I have this thing I call The Peak. That is when I have reached the zenith of my sexcapade for a particular period and I stop having sex. This
To All The Boys I’ve Loved (Entry 9)
Dear Dayo, It still beats me that we haven’t met after all these years of texting each other. Remember we started with Instagram? Your confidence was scary but it kind
LOVE . . . Or Something Like It (Entry 4)
February 14 SURPRISE, SURPRISE! Shortly after moving in with Kai, I decided one day to do something romantic for him. The idea I had was to make him breakfast in
A MEMOIR OF ALL THE MEN THAT HAVE BEEN (Chapter 7)
REX For many, Grindr is the go-to app when you want a quick release. It usually comes in a ribboned package of bland and hurried conversations and oftentimes off-putting personalities.
BLUNTS & CHIMNEY (Love Thy Inner Woman)
I met Odera on Grindr. My Grindr chatting style is the type where I am very nonchalant, give lots of monosyllabic responses, and stay very active with my block button
LOVE . . . Or Something Like It (Entry 3)
January 20 A HETEROSEXUAL JEALOUSY Dear Diary, so, my straight friend and I had a falling-out because of my boyfriend. Yup! Did I hear you say “What in the David
A MEMOIR OF ALL THE MEN THAT HAVE BEEN (Chapter 6)
CHARLES The ability to hold a conversation for me is more than ordinary talent. It’s also one of the things I seek in any man, especially a potential partner. For
BLUNTS & CHIMNEY (Utali Ekwensu)
PROLOGUE Many things happen when two or three are gathered with weed and smokes. And I have decided to share some of those experiences, those tea that get spilled in
LOVE . . . Or Something Like It (Entry 2)
January 16 CLOUDY WITH A CHANCE OF OHA SOUP Dear Diary, you should know one thing. Kai is not rich. He is far from rich. But he always finds ways
A MEMOIR OF ALL THE MEN THAT HAVE BEEN (Chapter 5)
OBINNA I met Obinna on Grindr. I was on the Island that day, at a test venue for a job, nervous as hell and needing a distraction while I waited
