17 responses

  1. Sim
    June 29, 2020

    Heh buddy, nobody should tell u what to do in this situation. U know what to do, but hesitant to accept. However I think, there is something Wilson know but not telling you.

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    • slender
      June 29, 2020

      LOL, one thing ill know for sure is that Everybody mentioned is this story is GAY. my advice is dont come out to Dominic, save yourself from unnecessary drama.

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  2. Mitch
    June 29, 2020

    Odds are, Dominic is another self-loathing gay man like the Andrew that’s his gym buddy.

    Either that, or we’re dealing with an actual hetero man who really likes you yet is homophobic as fuck.

    I think it’d be safer for you and your sanity if you came out to him after he’s left the country. It puts you out of close proximity to him and whatever damage he could possibly do to you when you come out to him.

    Point is, your safety comes first in situations like this. So, lead with your head, not your heart.

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  3. Delle
    June 29, 2020

    You shouldn’t be coerced into what you’re hesitant to do. Coming out is a PERSONAL decision and that thing about it strengthening a bond is a farce really.

    That said, how comfortable are you being best friends with a homophobic person sef? And how do you think coming out to him is what’s important when you should be steering clear of him. From the bit about him kissing you on the lips (even though that’s too flimsy to be a pointer), he could very well be queer (most IHed people react really strongly to homosexuality).

    He isn’t worth your being out to him. You can remain friends but know where the line is drawn.

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  4. Dee
    June 29, 2020

    Why are you even still friends with this strange character? When he leaves the country, cut your losses and lose his contact. 2020, the year of our black Lord Beyonce, is not the year to coddle or expose yourself to homophobia. Coming out to a known homophobe is like going drinking with a known rapist. Why would you do that?

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    • Jinchuriki
      June 29, 2020

      Cutting off someone you love is worse than kicking an addiction. Kicking an addiction is not easy, my friend.

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  5. Jinchuriki
    June 29, 2020

    I agree with Delle. You shouldn’t feel pressured to do anything you do not want to. For some reason, Sim’s point of view also makes sense, it’s possible Wilson knows more than he is letting you know.

    I have come out to a couple of people, including one of my “homophobic” older brothers. In my experience, you’ll know when it’s time to come out to whomever.

    Don’t feel pressured.

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  6. Loki
    June 29, 2020

    Well i agree with Sim, perhaps there is something which Wilson knows but isn’t telling u. On a whole, no one shuld pressure u into coming out. Dominic is your friend and i am sure dat u both have your moments, homophobe or not, there is a reason u have stuck with him all these while. So i will say that u weigh d pros and cons of it all. Decide for yourself,but i wouldnt say u shuld cut him off, its better u tell him and he he leaves u on his own, nt u pushing him off. u know him more dan we do, best of luck dear.

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  7. Haiku
    June 29, 2020

    I wish you could have more discussion on topics leading to homosexuality and see Dominic’s view to understand him better.I have a friend with whom I would have discussions with, sometimes him taking a more conservative view,that’s when we’re with other friends.I would later question him why he took such a stance and he’d tell me how he was hiding his genuine views to avoid prejudice from a fellow friend who is his fellow Church member,which happened to be true though.I came out to him last November. He just declared me his best friend and most honest person he’s ever we’re even better friends right now.
    That other friend of yours, be assured, will help convince Dominic to be more accepting should be be hard on you.
    #Dont spare a chance to come out,this seems a good opportunity for sure,since you already got a good mutual friend whom you got his full support

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  8. Mandy
    June 29, 2020

    How come nobody is talking about the reason Wilson is so accepting? Dude
    said “he’d always wanted to be gay but to no avail. He said he liked the fact that “gay people are a rare species” and that he loves rare people.”
    Lol. This is the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard from a hetero. Must be nice to observe life from a position where you wish you can make a choice to be part of a minority.

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  9. Black Dynasty
    June 29, 2020

    I’d say trust your instincts @ coming out to Dominic. If your gut is telling you not to, then don’t.

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  10. ken
    June 29, 2020

    NEWSFLASH: All y’all are gay, duh!

    Dominic is just as gay as andrew and wilson. The only difference is some of u suffer from internalized homophobia (dominic and jamie) while others (wilson) happy to live vicariously through u

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  11. Queen of Queens
    June 29, 2020

    Is there really any need to “come out”? What does coming out even mean? Live your life how you want to, so long as you are not doing harm.

    Send me Andrew’s contact details by the way…for “restoration” purposes only …and Dominic too ☺

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    • Loki
      June 29, 2020

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Chai, queen u no well. Wetin u wan restore?

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  12. Mannie
    June 30, 2020

    I appreciate everyone’s opinion, and I’ve decided not to come out to him till he leaves the country and peradventure the friendship continues,I’d then consider coming out to him. No one’s worth that drama biko….thanks alot guys. I appreciate the homeliness and warmth on KD…

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    • Vic
      June 30, 2020

      Right decision!

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  13. Alexxparish
    July 2, 2020

    Sometimes it not necessarily telling your best friend about your sexuality just like love Simon or Alex strangelove since Wilson knws about you and it cool with it let that be that and it okay too wait for the right time or moment don’t rush or complicate things for yourself🌈🌈🌈you valid dear one
    It time you start moving on but knw this you not alone

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