In this episode, NOSTRINGS has a beautiful discussion with a young Nigerian gay man, who came out to his family on his own volition. He talks life, denial, and coping with the everyday challenges that comes with being gay in Nigeria.
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‘I don’t see what changed some rules and didn’t change other rules… Let’s build castles out of the bricks society throws at us..’ – Scarface.
I thoroughly love this interview!
Pinky, is this your Scarface? He sounds so articulate and knowledgeable of his onions.
Am from a konk islamic family.I didnt intentionally come out my younger broda outted me to my mum.She was mad at me for like two hours after then life went on as usual she never told my dad till he died.We dont talk about it but she’s trying to give me hints to start thinking about marriage i guess in her mind she doesnt want to know the full details just be able to get it up and give me grand kids.
Biko, I need some tips on how to get a malo guy. I don’t speak Hausa so it is difficult to even communicate with them…
Interesting interview.
I am not surprised. Your parents reacted the way a typical Nigerian Christian Parent would.
I am curious, do you have any Muslim person that came out to his family? What was their reaction?
Have also got some frnds who their parents have found out one way or the other here in the north honestly things were just akward for a bit after that nobody wants to talk about it.This life style is more rampant in the north than u can even imagine