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  1. Black Dynasty
    June 7, 2020

    Agreed 100%

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  2. Dunder
    June 8, 2020

    This made sense. We have to unlearn a few things and start having sense.

    Relying on the shock factor to get off via someone else’s body is not cool. Looking for excuses like alcohol, sleep, weed, “it is too late to find a cab”, etc to do something that adds up to a complex with time is not cool. Sex that all participants cannot chest and say they did with their full mind should just stop.

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  3. Mandy
    June 9, 2020

    Your guilt reminds me of a revelation a friend of mine made to me two years ago. He was 12 when he touched his neighbor’s son, who was 11. This happened like a few times, whenever their neighbor brought their son over to his house for a sleepover. Then one day, the boy stopped coming over and shortly after that, they moved.

    It wasn’t until my friend became an adult and aware of the issues surrounding sexual harassment that he began to feel tortured by what he did. In fact, he felt so tortured that he began thinking that those neighbours moved because they wanted to take their son away from him.

    But he was 12.

    Which is what confuses me about what to feel regarding these prepubescent sexual issues. Because when he told me about this, I tried to comfort him by telling him he couldn’t take on the guilt of what a 12 year old, who barely knew any better, did.

    I guess I’m just confused by all this. I mean… Can you say that 12 year old that was my friend committed sexual abuse???

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    • Francis
      June 11, 2020

      My brother I wonder too oh. That’s for the lawyers in the house to say. Sometimes I feel like the blame lies with the parents. They keep shying away for sex education and leaving kids vulnerable to all sorts. The other day I saw a post about a woman teaching her 5 year old about consent and people had an issue with it. That he’s still a kid and shouldn’t be exposed to such 🤦🏽‍♂️

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