Tag "Friends with Benefits"

Editor's Desk 9 Comments

THE BOOTY CALL

I am barely settled in his house, my visit just about 7 minutes old, when my friend gets a call. His face lights up when he looks at the screen

Our Stories 28 Comments

THE MAN WHO IS NOT MY MAN

That first day, the storm was roaring its disapproval and thundering like my father’s voice raised just before he slams his fist hard on a table or a nearby door,

Series (Non-Fiction) 7 Comments

Waka Pass Diaries (Friend With Benefits)

August 11 There’s this friend of mine who has a Friend-With-Benefits relationship with me. The sex is really good. But that has been all we have. Really good sex. Plus

Editor's Desk 16 Comments

Waka Pass Diaries (No Kiss But Tell)

November 21 There is something odd about my sexuality that I’ve just had time to ponder on. As someone who places a great deal on intimacy and sex, there is

Our Stories 33 Comments

A Handy Flowchart To Make You Know If Your Friend-With-Benefits Is Boyfriend Material

Dating apps have revolutionized how gay men hook up. Gone are the days of dark, smokey bars and online chat rooms making small talk with strangers. These days, all it

Our Stories 61 Comments

Six Reasons Why Science (And Harmattan) Say You Need A Fuck Buddy

Harmattan has been reigning for some time now. The days are long. The nights are cold. Enter your friend-with-benefits–also known as a fuck buddy, or Bae, for those lucky ones.

Our Stories 51 Comments

EMOTIONS ARE MESSY

There’s nothing I hate more than laundry, I thought to myself one hot sunny Saturday afternoon as I spread the last T-shirt on the laundry line in the backyard. At