A Handy Flowchart To Make You Know If Your Friend-With-Benefits Is Boyfriend Material
Dating apps have revolutionized how gay men hook up. Gone are the days of dark, smokey bars and online chat rooms making small talk with strangers. These days, all it takes is the swipe of a finger to locate your next bedroom conquest, zero feet away (and up!).
But despite the simplicity of modern hooking up, dating apps actually create confusion, particularly when it comes to labeling a relationship. Because what do you call the guy who you’ve been having sex with every weekend for the past month and a half? Is he still just a fuck buddy? Friend With Benefits? BF?
According to a study released by the dating app, Grab Him, 71 percent of gay men say they’ve found long-term love online. So how do you determine if the guy you’ve been casually boning is boyfriend material?
Queerty created this handy flowchart to help you figure it out…

I don’t think girls are as stupid as you think c:
Uh…Okay?
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Easy tiger!!!
It’s overrated and all shades of everything complicated.
@Ace: I’m with you man. The whole fuck buddy thing isn’t for me as I end up catching feelings 🙁
Relationship sweet die…………. With d right person oh! #TongueOut
@MM, Ikr?
But….
Max, you would know if you were me.
Do you mind sharing it over a cup of coffee @MM?
#TeamKillTheHoes
#TeamKillTheHoes
#TeamKillTheHoes
#TeamKillTheHoes
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Sure,
And orijin too.
But Pls don’t preach to me.
MM, how does Orijin really taste? I no wan do oju kokoro open my gift pack can
Trystham bae, you really have to try it.
Thank me later.
Relationships suck.
They are complicated.
They are overrated and so on.
But in the end, they are worth the whole trouble when you’re in it with the right person.
And that is all that matters.
So MM sweetheart, how do I thank you? With a cutlass or a knife? That shii was a struggle to finish.
Oh no Trystham, drop your weapons.
Hope it wasn’t the bitters you went for.
Everyone likes the herbal spiced orijin beer (bottled or canned).
You can ask DM, he can relate.
And the right person taken forever to cum…sorry, come.
Lmao….. Oh gosh! Max you won’t kill me
All of you guys that don’t believe in love and relationships are the problems with the gay community.
Hmmm, i ll rather have friends with benefits,and we all know its u get wht u get..
Hmmm.
I keep telling myself “friends with benefit” but sometimes the sex is so good that the thought of him fucking someone else kills you, Speaking from experience. Maybe it is just me but there is a thin line between a good fuck buddy and a “something more relationship”.
Ok this flow chart is just hilarious sha
But it does make (a bit of) sense all things considered
Relationships suck…
Na wa oooo….
Seems like you want to spoil my eyesight this morning.
This is so mathematical and I just had to stop following.
Why don’t you guys just talk about it instead of inferring or assuming.
Fuck buddies. Saving us since 1800. I think it should fall into the category of ‘Friends with Benefits’. Benefit of good sex
#TeamFriendsWithBenefitsOverRelationships
#TeamFuckBuddiesOverLovers
#TeamLoveSucks
#TeamLoveIsBoring
#TeamSpontaneousAndAdventuorous
#TeamNoCommitments
I thought the questions would help to decide how HE feels about u. Of course I aleady know who is in Friendzone and whom I want to be in ‘Something More’ zone.
Accurate enough, me thinks
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I don’t believe it for even a second.