The Proposal: Three Queer Men (Two Of Them In Diaspora) Are Looking For Queer Women to Partner With

The Proposal: Three Queer Men (Two Of Them In Diaspora) Are Looking For Queer Women to Partner With

Hello, I’m Jeff, queer, 32 years of age, and Nigerian. I reside in Canada where I work. I’m looking for a lady between 25 – 30 years of age, who is educated and has a career, and who is willing to enter a marriage of convenience and have kids. I’m keener on someone currently in or planning on moving to Canada. However, I’m open to conversations if the person isn’t close by.

For any interested women, please hit me up via my email at and let’s see how it goes.

Submitted by Jeff


Hi, I am Vic. I am queer and I am in my early 30s. I am a budding medical professional.

I seek a marriage of convenience with any interested queer woman, preferably a feminine-presenting lesbian or bisexual, aged mid-twenties to early thirties. Even though I am from the South West, I wouldn’t mind the tribe of this woman.

What I seek includes a willingness to have children, someone who is educated, kind, sorted and ready to work with me as a team and partner.

I should also disclose that I am HIV positive and have been undetectable for years; I am healthy and strong. If you are interested but scared about the HIV bit, you could read up on undetectable levels and serodiscordant couples.

Any interested lady can reach out to me via

Submitted by Vic


My name is Biola, I am a 38-year-old Christian, Yoruba and bisexual. I am well educated, reserved and caring. I live in the United Kingdom.

I would like to start a family with a bisexual or lesbian lady who lives in the UK or visits the UK regularly. She should be between the ages of 27-36. She should be kind hearted, loving, respectful, open-minded, educated, Christian and maybe Yoruba as well.

Interested person should contact me on Thank you.

Submitted by Biola

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  1. Bliss
    August 09, 19:32 Reply

    Am rooting for you Vic. This somehow gives me light and Hope

  2. MGM
    August 10, 12:01 Reply

    Hmm, why not just marry straight womens? And hide your Sexuality like others?

    • Pink Panther
      August 10, 12:39 Reply

      You actually typed this, considered it, saw that it made sense and then decided to post it? Really? People are looking to make arrangements where they can still live free in their private lives, without having to hide and lie to anybody, and your suggestion is for them to live a lie?

      • Tristan
        August 22, 17:57 Reply

        Typing “womens” alone is enough to know that he’s a disgusting dingbat

  3. Memoirsofayo
    September 10, 01:21 Reply

    Please aren’t they looking for men
    Especially ones in the diaspora

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