Our Stories
HERE AND AWAY
I have been in this on-again, off-again relationship and it is getting up to seven years now. Ivy and I started out as a committed couple when we were both
ROCK BOTTOM
I’ve always played the role of Top in my sexual relationships. In fact, I am what one would call a Strict Top. However, the older I get, the less inclined
THE ONES THAT GOT AWAY
Have you ever met someone and instantly liked them, even without so much as exchanging a word with them? You have no idea who they are, so you create your
LOVE CANNOT AFFORD TO BE BLIND (The Pain And The Police)
I would first of all like to appreciate the wave of empathy that came my way from this community following the sharing of the story of my ordeal in the
THE NEW YEAR BANG
My goodness, I was bored out of my mind, like, Heaven, help ME!!! I was so bored that I’d actually started taking note of how many corners in the ceiling
LOVE CANNOT AFFORD TO BE BLIND
His name is Taiwo Olakunle Balogun – his actual names. I want you to know that name, remember that name, because you will come to associate the devil with that
MIDNIGHT PLEASURES
I was already quite a sojourner before my thirteenth birthday, not by any design of mine; my dad was a police officer and also a very devote family man, which
PRIDE AND THE DOLLARFICATION OF QUEERNESS
The thing with being subjected to queerphobic violence by a socially-constructed heterosexual majority group is that amidst the violence, you’re expected to accept the barest minimum from the ‘decent’ ones
THE MANAGER
“Good afternoon, are you here to eat?” Those were the first words he said to me when I stepped inside the restaurant located in Wuse. I had a lunch date
THE DAY WHEN WE JUST ARE (A Message About Pride)
You must think gay people do too much, especially with the whole Pride thing. I can see you thinking: We know that they are gay, so there is no need
