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The Differences Between Being In Love And Loving Someone

Originally published on elitedaily.com   It took me a very long time to learn the difference between being in love with someone and actually loving that person. I learned the

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  1. Mandy
    August 27, 05:42 Reply

    I like how he qualified that finding of love with ‘If’. Finding love is hard in the general public, let alone in the gay community. Lucky is the man who finds someone special, who just happens to love him just as much. This is why I laud married gay couples. To be able to get to that point of certainty, when you know absolutely that this is the man/woman you want to spend the rest of your life with… It’s just gold.

  2. KingBey
    August 27, 05:57 Reply

    Preach to my soul ! Good people are rare out there not just scarce. *clings more tightly to my Oyom*

  3. Justme
    August 27, 06:20 Reply

    Well said Kenny ??. But then most of us are too hooked on looking for that next ‘big thing’ (pun intended) to do this. Maybe variety is overrated after all.

  4. Mitch
    August 27, 07:40 Reply

    Preach on, Kenny. Preach on!

  5. YOU-KNOW-WHO
    August 27, 09:54 Reply

    Love feels good. I never knew true gay love was possible until I met my new boo. Long may we last.

  6. Delle
    August 27, 10:19 Reply

    *bows in unshaken reverence*

    Apart from all the horrors being gay in this country exposes one to, gay guys are the most attitudinal sets of beings in the planet. Shoots love far away from pleading ones.

  7. Mr. Fingers
    August 27, 10:36 Reply

    we cant blame anyone for our inability to stick to one partner for long.

        • Delle
          August 27, 20:48 Reply

          Yea, I was only completing your statement.

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