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  1. Mandy
    April 14, 2020

    “I never went out of my way to make you feel special. I never made it look like you mattered, even though you did. I always picked my friends over you, with the excuse that they’d always be there for me when you are gone. Now that I think about it, I realize I was a horrible person. It is true my friends are still here, but then, so would you if I wasn’t so difficult. ”

    This touched me. I felt it. One day, we should have this conversation where we treat our boyfriends like they can’t be our friends. Yes, friends stay while boyfriends come and go. BUT friends also come and go, while boyfriends stay. When you realize that the man you’re sleeping with is something special, he should also be your friend. Friendship should be one of the foundations of relationships, but unfortunately in the gaybourhood, that doesn’t happen often.

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    • Lanre
      April 22, 2020

      Exactly, sometimes I think it’s the cliche that “friends would always be there no matter what”. Yes they might but your boyfriend should be your friend too. It’s saddening

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    • Olly
      April 23, 2020

      That’s right Mandy. There’s a reason why he’s called the boyFRIEND. I know that now.

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  2. Delle
    April 14, 2020

    So pure. So fearless in your acceptance of your wrongdoing. So cute.

    I can’t wait to see how many more letters you have to write (cos that would mean how many boyfriends you’ve had),so I can exclaim in the sheer shock of it all seeing as some of us can’t even boast of ever having one.

    Keep it coming.

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    • Olly
      April 23, 2020

      Thanks Delle.
      🤗🤗🤗

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  3. Gblex
    April 14, 2020

    This touched me real deep. There’s something powerful and unexplainably cute about your acceptance of wrongdoing – it came straight from the heart! I really do hope Enem sees this and pulls you back into his warm embrace. It is quite hard to find someone who loves you intentionally and unconditionally. If you ever find one please never let him go.

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    • Olly
      April 23, 2020

      It’s sad I didn’t know this in time. I do now and grateful I learned from that experience.

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