Tag "Top and Bottom"

Our Stories 70 Comments

The Conundrum Of Tops and Bottoms

When I first started discovering myself, knowing I was gay and what it meant to be gay, I had lots to deal with. I guess we all did. MOST of

The Happenings 20 Comments

“I Want Slow, Gentle Sex When I Bottom.” Gay guy complains of sexual partners always wanting to “pound” him

Maybe it’s a matter of preference, maybe it’s something too many guys learn from porn – but this guy on Reddit is wondering whether there’s something wrong with him for

Our Stories 25 Comments

The Piece About The Power Of Being A Bottom In Sex

Written by George M. Johnson and originally published on thebody.com The black LGBTQIA community is nothing new, but it is now beginning to write its own narrative in a way

Love And Sex In The City 23 Comments

LOVE AND SEX IN THE CITY (Episode 55)

It was amid a flurry of chuckles that Kizito and I walked into his older brother’s living room from our day. It was evening and the Saturday sun slanting through

Our Stories 95 Comments

Let’s Discuss…About That Gay Man Called The Top

The contention between Tops and Bottoms has existed ever since the gender roles of men and women were made to cross over into the universal gaybourhood. The Top is the

Our Stories 65 Comments

Dear Bottom, You Should Stop Doing These

FOREWORD: *sigh* A KDian who clearly identifies as Top (and whose identity you will discover at the end of this piece and subsequently crucify, if you wish) just decided to

Series (Non-Fiction) 38 Comments

SUITS AND TIES (Part 5)

Read previous episodes of Suits And Ties Here1, Here2, Here3 and Here4. * Hi, I’m JBoy, and yes, I still work in what is probably the most homophobic workplace environment

James' Journal 46 Comments

JAMES’ JOURNAL (Entry 44)

July 25 Depression for me is like that annoying relative that comes to visit usually uninvited. The kind of relative you aren’t happy to see but must oblige. You plague

Our Stories 16 Comments

THAT THING AROUND YOUR HIPS

Sexual roles and preferences have always been a hot topic here on Kito Diaries, with both sides going for the jugular, swords drawn and claws bared. This piece is not

Gallery 29 Comments

Photo Of The Day XXXII

I don’t speak Latin, but it’s pretty obvious what message this is passing across. Lol.