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Dear KD: What Do I Do About The Man I Love From Afar?

Sometime last year, I met this guy on Grindr. It was supposed to be a hookup, no strings attached, because he doesn’t live in Nigeria. But one thing led to

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Dear KD: What Do I Tell My Friend About His Boyfriend’s Demand?

So there’s this friend of mine, let’s call him Damon. He’s been what you’d call a “fuck boy” (don’t worry, he’s proud of it). So he’s done a lot of

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Dear KD: Who Do I Get With?

There’s Jon and there’s Felix. Jon and I started chatting on Facebook 11 months ago, in October 2016. He was overseas at the time, but has been back to Nigeria

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Dear KD: What Does He Want From Me?

I don’t know what he wants from me. I met him at the market where I saw and liked his brother. But eventually, it was the both of us that

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Dear KD: How do I get out of this mess?

I have built up quite a reputation for myself as a bitch who doesn’t care much about the feelings of other people. I say what is on my mind, the

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Dear KD: Is Sex Really That Important?

I am 26, never been in a relationship or really felt what love is, although this is something I want to happen for me someday. I’ve met some fellows, been

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Dear KD: How Do I Get My Crush To Notice Me?

Back in secondary school eight years ago, there was this guy who shamelessly crushed on me. He was this cute little boy who I didn’t bother getting into anything with,

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Dear KD: Does The Gaydar Really Exist?

I am a closeted gay man. And the only way I have been able to hook up has been online. But I am looking for more organic hookups, starting off

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Dear KD: My Boyfriend Is HIV Positive And Thinks I Stigmatize Him

My boyfriend is HIV positive. I know this and I have no problem with it. But for months, we’ve been arguing over the same issue. Whenever we want to have

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Dear KD: I Urgently Need A Contract Girlfriend

It is the tale as old as time. Boy is born gay. Family is homophobic. Family wants to know when Boy is settling down. Boy keeps putting off the inevitable,