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Dear KD: I Am In A Situationship With My Married, Heterosexual Colleague

When I got into the organization where I work, I stayed reserved for some time, choosing to subdue my usual outgoing self in order to study my environment and those

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Dear KD: I Am A Gay Man Who Really, REALLY Needs A Marital Arrangement With A Lesbian

I am a gay man, based in Lagos, aged 26, an only son and from a religious family. My parents have been on my case since I was 24 to

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Dear KD: Is There Any Woman (Gay or Straight) Who’d Like To Have A Kid With A Gay Man?

I am a 33-year-old guy who is gay and wants to have children of my own. But I am faced with the challenge of marriage, because I don’t want it.

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Dear KD: I Have Problems

Dear KD, I have a problem…actually, problems. One, I think I watch too much porn and masturbate more than I should. I don’t want to use the word “addicted” because

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Dear KD: I Am a Gay Man Looking For A Lesbian Partner

So yes, I am gay and I’m looking for a lesbian partner. Partnership here implies a friendship. We can decide to have a child or two through adoption or other

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Dear KD: Between Me And The Other Man

I have dated him for four years now. Before I met him, he had a boyfriend. He is Joseph and his boyfriend is Jude. Joseph fell in love with me

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Dear KD: I Am A Lesbian Interested In Marrying A Gay Man

Hello I am a 30-year-old lesbian, working with an indigenous firm based in Lagos. I have been miserable since I got back from holidaying with my family; the unending nag

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Dear KD: My Partner Doesn’t Care About My Orgasm

Hello, guys. I need your advice on this one. I like to think that I am in a relationship. Well, it’s that kind of situationship where no word of commitment

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Dear KD: I’m A Straight Woman Looking To Marry A Gay/Bi Man

Hello My name is Chidera, and I am a straight woman interested in entering into a marriage of convenience with a gay or bisexual man. I am a woman who

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Dear KD: Am I Being Too Paranoid?

There is someone I follow on Instagram. We actually follow each other. There’s nothing else to our online acquaintanceship though. We just like each other’s pictures, drop the occasional comment,