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Dear KD: I Am Secretly Dating My Best Friend’s Brother

For a long time, I wanted to bring this issue here to seek advice, because I didn’t want to risk the person I’m concerned about seeing it. But then, he’s

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Dear KD: I Am Struggling With The Decision Of Coming Out To My Best Friend

I have a best friend and his name is Dominic (for the purpose of this story). Both Dominic and I are friends with this other guy, Wilson. I met Wilson

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The Proposal: I Am A US-Based Gay Man Looking For A Woman Interested In An Arranged Marriage

I am David, a 29-year-old gay Nigerian based in North America. I am currently looking for a lesbian, bisexual or (perhaps) straight woman willing to enter into a marriage of

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Dear KD: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be Less Me

I got acquainted with this guy on Facebook during the lockdown period. We got talking and during our conversations, he revealed to me stuff about his life. He’d lost his

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Are You An LGBTQ Nigerian Living With HIV? I Would Love To Talk To You

Hello I am Leonard. And I am a freelance journalist who’s recently been commissioned to write for the Canadian magazine, Daily Extra. The magazine features works on LGBTQ+ people around

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The Proposal: I Am Looking For A Lesbian or Sexually-Fluid Woman To Be My Partner

Hello I am a 25-year-old gay man residing in Lagos. As an only son, I’d always known the pressure to get married would come sooner rather than later. So, I

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Dear KD: My Closet Is Getting Threatened

Hello guys, I have a problem. And I really need your advice. Over the years, I have struggled very hard to hide my sexuality from family and the world outside.

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Dear KD: I Have An American Daddy Who Wants To Marry Me

I made the acquaintance of this American Bear of a Dad on Facebook in November last year, but really didn’t give much attention to him and his interest in me

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The Proposal: I Am A Straight Woman Interested In A Marriage With A Gay Man That Will Benefit Us Both

As aforementioned, I am a heterosexual woman, who will be 22 in May. I am interested in getting married to a gay man, with whom we would work out the

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Dear KD: I Am In A Situationship With My Married, Heterosexual Colleague

When I got into the organization where I work, I stayed reserved for some time, choosing to subdue my usual outgoing self in order to study my environment and those