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The Proposal: A Queer Woman Is Looking For A Gay Man Interested In Having A Family
Hello Are you a lover of kids? Are you someone willing to put in effort to raise a family in a drama-free arrangement? My name is SB and I am
Dear KD: How Can I Take Down A Homophobic Gay Man Who Won’t Let Me Be?
I have known this guy (let’s call him X) for some time. We are not lovers, not even friends, just two people who are acquainted with each other based on
The Proposal: Three Nigerian Men Are Looking For Queer Women To Partner With In Contract Marriages
1. I am Prince, a 32-year-old gay businessman based in Eastern Nigeria. I’m looking for a Queer woman of any ethnicity (preferably Igbo) who’s interested in a mutual relationship which
Dear KD: Should I Come Out To Her?
As a university undergraduate living in Minna, life can get really lonely. It has seemed so far to me like there’s no gay community here to be a part of.
Dear KD: I’m Trapped Between A Marriage And A HIV Status
After following this blog for quite some time, I finally have the courage to say what I have needed help with for a long time. I have been HIV positive
The Proposal: Here Are Two Queer Men Are Looking For Long-Lasting Connections With Interested Queer Women
1. A Germany-based Gay Man Looking To Co-Parent With A Lesbian or Bisexual Woman Hello, I’m Felix, 30 years old, and a Nigerian gay man based in Germany. Sadly, I
Dear KD: I Desperately Need Help To Get Rid Of These Hemorrhoids
Hello, guys. So I have had hemorrhoids since April. When I noticed this, I went to pharmacy to complain and the staff prescribed Daflon and Anusol suppositories, which I used
The Proposal: Nigerian Doctor Based Abroad Looking For A Queer Woman To Enter a Marriage Contract With
Hi, I am Dr. Okeruo, 28 years old, only son of my parents, Igbo and gay. The pressure to get married just started, and because I am unwilling to do
The Proposal: Gay Man Based in Europe, Looking For A Lesbian Interested In An Arranged Marriage
Hi, my name is Onochie. I’m 30 years old, Igbo and gay. Although I do not have any pressure from family or friends to get married yet, I believe that
Dear KD: I Have a Bowel That Won’t Let Me Have Sex
Hello guys, I have a serious problem. Finally, a guy who I’ve been crushing on indicated interest in hooking up with me. But I cannot go to see him for
