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The Proposal: Three Nigerian Men Are Looking For Queer Women To Partner With In Contract Marriages

1. I am Prince, a 32-year-old gay businessman based in Eastern Nigeria. I’m looking for a Queer woman of any ethnicity (preferably Igbo) who’s interested in a mutual relationship which

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Dear KD: Should I Come Out To Her?

As a university undergraduate living in Minna, life can get really lonely. It has seemed so far to me like there’s no gay community here to be a part of.

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Dear KD: I’m Trapped Between A Marriage And A HIV Status

After following this blog for quite some time, I finally have the courage to say what I have needed help with for a long time. I have been HIV positive

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The Proposal: Here Are Two Queer Men Are Looking For Long-Lasting Connections With Interested Queer Women

1. A Germany-based Gay Man Looking To Co-Parent With A Lesbian or Bisexual Woman Hello, I’m Felix, 30 years old, and a Nigerian gay man based in Germany. Sadly, I

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Dear KD: I Desperately Need Help To Get Rid Of These Hemorrhoids

Hello, guys. So I have had hemorrhoids since April. When I noticed this, I went to pharmacy to complain and the staff prescribed Daflon and Anusol suppositories, which I used

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The Proposal: Nigerian Doctor Based Abroad Looking For A Queer Woman To Enter a Marriage Contract With

Hi, I am Dr. Okeruo, 28 years old, only son of my parents, Igbo and gay. The pressure to get married just started, and because I am unwilling to do

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The Proposal: Gay Man Based in Europe, Looking For A Lesbian Interested In An Arranged Marriage

Hi, my name is Onochie. I’m 30 years old, Igbo and gay. Although I do not have any pressure from family or friends to get married yet, I believe that

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Dear KD: I Have a Bowel That Won’t Let Me Have Sex

Hello guys, I have a serious problem. Finally, a guy who I’ve been crushing on indicated interest in hooking up with me. But I cannot go to see him for

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Dear KD: First We Were Friends, Then We Weren’t

This story that I am about to tell you is a story about a friend of mine. For the sake of the story, let’s call him Caleb From when I

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Dear KD: How Can I Go From Bottoming To Topping?

Hello, guys, I really need your help. Maybe there are people like me out there who have managed to figure this out and can help me. I have always played