Tag "Top and Bottom"

Our Stories 9 Comments

STILL TOP OR NOW BOTTOM?

Several weeks ago, I was invited to birthday party by a friend (we’d been chatting on Grindr and eventually WhatsApp). And I’d only met him once prior to the time

Our Stories 24 Comments

THE SHOE ON THE OTHER FOOT

I hadn’t had sex in a long time. Between work and personal commitments, I barely had a social life, let alone time for random hookups. The day I hung out

The Happenings 8 Comments

A ‘Mostly Top’ Guy learns a tough lesson about cancelling on your Bottom

A guy who identifies as “mostly top” found the shoe on the other foot after he spent hours preparing for bottoming, only to receive nothing but excuses. Andy, a marketing

The Happenings 21 Comments

Rhyheim Shabazz may have (finally!) bottomed, and Twitter can’t handle it

Rhyheim Shabazz is everyone’s favourite porn newcomer, who shot to prominence over the past year mostly through his own OnlyFans and JustForFans pages, and amassing over 300,000 followers (reportedly the

The Happenings 1 Comment

“Top Vs. Bottom” Twitter Drama unfolds in the wake of Porn Star Armond Rizzo Calling Out Pay Disparity In Porn Industry

So, things quickly escalated on Twitter following the call-out that porn star Armond Rizzo did, where he accused the porn studio, Blacks on Boys, of underpaying bottom performers. First, fellow

The Happenings 3 Comments

Armond Rizzo Calls Out Porn Studio For Underpaying Bottoms

One of the most recognizable bottoms in the business recently took to Twitter to blast a studio for unfair pay. Superstar Armond Rizzo sent out a series of Twitter claiming

The Happenings 6 Comments

“To Be A Bottom Is Not An Insult.” Johnnell Terrell Calls Out Bottom Shaming

The model and inspirational speaker on LGBT issues, Johnnell Terrell, recently took to his Instagram page to address the issue of bottom shaming in the gay community. The IGTV video

Editor's Desk 9 Comments

The Bottom Chronicles (Entry 6)

A friend of mine once said that all Tops should bottom at least once, so that they would have more consideration and express more sensitivity for what Bottoms have to

The Happenings 5 Comments

Masculine Black Man has a problem. He is an ‘extremely masc bottom’

Stereotypes ruin the party again. One guy says he has a problem keeping men’s attention as a black, “extremely masc” bottom because he doesn’t conform to perceptions of what bottoms

Opinion Pieces 3 Comments

It Is Not Only Possible But Common For A Gay Man To Not Like Anal Sex

Anal sex has become conflated with the male gay or bisexual experience — so much so that the top-vs-bottom question is often the first talking point in Grindr chats. So